{"id":21954,"date":"2019-04-29T11:51:03","date_gmt":"2019-04-29T15:51:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.easternmennonite.org\/?p=21954"},"modified":"2019-09-17T13:38:16","modified_gmt":"2019-09-17T17:38:16","slug":"flames-staying-on-same-page-daily-news-record-feature","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.easternmennonite.org\/es\/2019\/04\/flames-staying-on-same-page-daily-news-record-feature\/","title":{"rendered":"Flames Staying on Same Page, Daily News-Record feature"},"content":{"rendered":"

The following article by Cody Elliott was printed in the April 29, 2019 Daily News-Record.<\/em><\/p>\n

HARRISONBURG \u2014 Each time a ball sails by an opposing goalkeeper and into the back of the net, Abby Stapleton doesn\u2019t celebrate.<\/p>\n

Instead, she said she looks for the teammate that assisted her on the goal \u2014 she\u2019s tallied a city\/county high 21 of them already this season \u2014 and makes it a joint celebration.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe care about each other enough that we want each other to succeed,\u201d Stapleton said. \u201cWe\u2019re not so self-centered that we want all the goals. We\u2019re willing to share the ball and get everyone goals.\u201d<\/p>\n

That type of selflessness for the Eastern Mennonite girls soccer team this season has not only made the Flames one of the most potent offenses in the Blue Ridge Conference, but has helped the team form a feeling of solidarity.<\/p>\n

The Eastern Mennonite program has built a reputation as one of the best in the Virginia Independent Schools Athletic Association over the years and specifically in the five seasons since Andrew Gascho became coach.<\/p>\n

\u201cGascho has really stressed that the most important things for this team are that we have a faith-based community and, win or lose, we are playing for each other and playing for God,\u201d Stapleton said. \u201c You\u2019re doing it with each other and for each other. I think it takes the pressure off and allows us to push ourselves and be our best because we know we\u2019re not going to get angry at each other.\u201d<\/p>\n

Gascho was originally an assistant under Jason Capps as the Flames won the Virginia Independent Schools Athletic Association Division II state championship in 2013 \u2014 the first in school history \u2014 and finished as runner-ups in 2014.<\/p>\n

In his first season as head coach in 2015, EMHS defeated Trinity School at Meadow View to win the school\u2019s second state title, but finished as runner-up a year later with a 1-0 loss to Highland.<\/p>\n

Players such as Stapleton and fellow junior Ava Galgano were on that runner-up team as eighth graders and Gascho said the experience for that group is paying off now.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe experience all the way around is really good.\u201d Gascho said. \u201cThe key for this year is just finding the right rhythm, whether it\u2019s starting games or bringing people off the bench to change the energy level. Finding that rhythm is something that hasn\u2019t quite clicked perfect. That\u2019s exciting because we\u2019ve gotten this far and don\u2019t quite feel like we\u2019ve played our best yet.\u201d<\/p>\n

The Flames are 9-2 this year and 4-2 in the BRC after a 4-2 win over Chatham Hall on Friday, but it was a loss to Virginia Episcopal School on April 11 that the team said opened its eyes.<\/p>\n

Entering that game, Eastern Mennonite had won four in a row, but the Flames\u2019 normally-potent offensive attack was stalled as they fell 2-0 in Harrisonburg.<\/p>\n

\u201cThat was kind of a game-changer,\u201d senior Camryn Landes said. \u201cWe had in our minds that it was going to be an easy road to states. We finally got some cold water in our faces with that. Now, our whole mindset is just to win and dominate every game.\u201d<\/p>\n

For the most part, Eastern Mennonite has done just that, scoring four or more goals in seven of its nine wins and outscoring opponents 42-11 for the season.<\/p>\n

Gascho said one of the biggest keys to the Flames\u2019 offensive explosion is the different types of ways they can score, whether it be by bearing down on the edges to get around the corner or sneaking in a pass and using their speed.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhen you can score in such a variety of ways, that makes it really hard to defend,\u201d Gascho said. \u201cWe spread the scoring around. Statistically, it\u2019s weighted one way, but when teams key on [Stapleton], we love that. It opens everyone else up. \u2026 We can really kind of morph and change and score in a variety of ways.\u201d<\/p>\n

As a VISAA school, Eastern Mennonite has the unique advantage of occasionally putting eighth graders on the varsity team if they\u2019re ready, such as Stapleton and Galgano in 2016.<\/p>\n

This year, the Flames have six freshmen, eight sophomores, eight juniors and two seniors, but Stapleton said you couldn\u2019t tell the difference between any of them.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe interact the exact same way as we would with someone in our own grade,\u201d Stapleton said. \u201cI have a ton of friends that are underclassmen and that relationship that we\u2019ve formed here carries off the field. When we\u2019re on the field, we don\u2019t get irritated with each other like other teams do. We know each other on a very deep, personal level. I really think that helps us.\u201d<\/p>\n

The relationships between the players is evident not only through their camaraderie at practices and before games, but also when they step on the field and it\u2019s time to produce.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe work together as a team and we pick up for one another, play hard for one another,\u201d goalkeeper Caroline Hayes said. \u201cYou can\u2019t just go off and say, \u2018This is going to be my game\u2019 It\u2019s generally, \u2018I\u2019m going to do my best for you.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n

Five different players have scored for EMHS this season \u2014Stapleton, Galgano, Halie Mast, Joelle Blosser and Sidney Rhodes \u2014 and eight have at least one assist.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe\u2019re grateful to have so many fast and technical players,\u201d Galgano said. \u201cA lot of teams will try to focus on one person, but we don\u2019t really just have one person. If you focus on them, the game is over because you can\u2019t focus on an entire team. That\u2019s one of our biggest strengths. We can play through anybody and it\u2019s going to go very well.\u201d<\/p>\n

Gascho said the offense thrives off the defensive effort Eastern Mennonite puts forth each game and made sure to note the dominating performances wouldn\u2019t be possible without that side of the field stepping up immensely.<\/p>\n

That was especially evident early in the year with the Flames posting four straight shutouts to start the season, outscoring 14-0 in the process.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe communication has helped a lot on the field,\u201d Landes said. \u201cWe\u2019re talking a lot. \u2026 I feel like once we get into the groove, we\u2019re pretty good at figuring out the strategies of the other team. Once we get around that, we score goals consistently and often. We can score quite a lot.\u201d<\/p>\n

Galgano said the team is close and that makes things fun at times, but she noted the importance of each player\u2019s self-motivation this season as a reason for their success.<\/p>\n

Her teammate, Stapleton, agreed, saying the Flames have continuously improved and are starting to finally get to a point where they\u2019re playing the type of soccer they envisioned when the season began.<\/p>\n

\u201cOne of the biggest things I watch for every season is not only skills, but your mindset going into games,\u201d said Stapleton, one of four EMHS team captains. \u201cWe typically start the season kind of slow, get nervous. At this point, people have clicked and mentally, they know what they need to do. That allows us to really play our best games.\u201d<\/p>\n

That doesn\u2019t mean the Flames are content, however.<\/p>\n

In fact, since the loss to VES, Gascho said he\u2019s preached the importance of \u201cnot getting content\u201d and staying focused on one game at a time.<\/p>\n

\u201cThat\u2019s a word I\u2019ve used a lot recently,\u201d Gascho said. \u201cWhen you win a bunch of games or things are going really well, it\u2019s easy to get content. We want to do the unremarkable things really well. If we\u2019re doing those things really well, we\u2019re getting better every day and that\u2019s what we\u2019re committed to.\u201d<\/p>\n

As seniors, Hayes and Landes are familiar with the type of success that\u2019s become routine for the Eastern Mennonite program, but said they don\u2019t let it phase them.<\/p>\n

Instead, they said they know they\u2019re playing for bigger purposes.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou definitely do want to try your best and you do want to see success, but at the same time, we realize it\u2019s not all about winning,\u201d Hayes said. \u201cIt\u2019s great to win, but there\u2019s a whole lot more to the game and to walking off the field. Did we play our best. Are we content with the game? How are we going to improve upon whatever we learned today?\u201d<\/p>\n

One way for the Flames to do that is by focusing on getting better each day, Gascho said.<\/p>\n

\u201cNo matter if we win or lose games, we want to make sure we\u2019re a better team and we are going to take what we can away from the game to get better,\u201d Gascho said. \u201cA loss doesn\u2019t destroy us because there is a lot to learn from and we can be better after a loss.\u201d<\/p>\n

Losses have been hard to come by for Eastern Mennonite this season, but have happened, and Gascho and the players said it\u2019s OK because they\u2019re not playing simply for wins.<\/p>\n

\u201cI think that\u2019s the uniqueness of our program,\u201d Gascho said. \u201cWe\u2019re committed to playing for God and playing for each other and that mindset makes it not about yourself. When you go out there and you\u2019re playing for yourself, that\u2019s a pretty hollow thing.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhen you see your teammate working their tail off, you want to match that. When you\u2019re really committed to working together and working for someone else, that\u2019s the culture we want.\u201d<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the culture that\u2019s been built by Gascho at EMHS and one that could result in another deep run at the VISAA state tournament in May \u2014 something the four captains admitted is a goal.<\/p>\n

Evident by the hugs from Stapleton after a frenzy of goals or the laughs between teammates as they prepare for a practice, Galgano said the Flames are all looking for the same thing.<\/p>\n

\u201cEvery single day, you step on the field with 10 of your closest friends,\u201d Galgano said. \u201cWe\u2019ve been practicing for so long and we\u2019ve gotten to know each other really well. Knowing that even when you mess up, you\u2019re going to have 10 people encouraging you is so special.<\/p>\n

\u201cThis is a special team.\u201d<\/p>\n

Contact Cody Elliott at 574-6284 or celliott@dnronline.com<\/a> | Follow Cody on Twitter: @Cody_DNRSports<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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